Of course those that do not like me will have bad things to say. That I am not trustworthy, arrogant, self-centered, love to make false claims or false accusations, out to cheat others etc etc
Well surely they will say all that and more. I expect that. If they have nothing bad to say they will be loving me instead of hating me.
I am not deterred. I just turn their hatred into energy fuel that enables me to move on and focus on improving myself.
We have to understand motivation in order to understand action.